Husbands and wives are accountable to each other. The husband is the head of the wife, Christ is head of the Church and God is the head of Christ. (1 Cor 11:3) Most problems we have could be solved if we remembered these basic facts. This natural order of things was established by God for all mankind that our tenure on earth would be less difficult. HE determined how things are to be. (Gen 2:18-24) Husbands who do not follow their head (Christ) have a hard time and wives unwilling to submit. Wives who do not submit to their head (husband) also have troubles and endangered salvation. Christ demonstrated complete obedience and submission to His head (God) who was always right and we should demonstrate complete obedience and submission to our head (Christ) who also is always right. Our wives are commanded to obey and submit to us (husbands) who are not always right. This creates a problem but it should be only a temporary one. We all make mistakes but when repentance and forgiveness takes place restoration is accomplished and the Lord’s command to submit should be obeyed. UNFORGIVENESS is one of the largest problems we have. Husbands are not always right but are always the head in the husband/wife relationship and must be accountable for it. The wife is also accountable. It is better to be alone in the desert than live with an angry quarrelsome woman. (Pro 21:19) Contentious people keep strife going, adding wood to the already too hot fire. Some men also are contentious and promote strife. (Pro 26:21) We all will face God who will render to all according to how we have done. (Ro 2:5-11) None of us can always be right but we can be accountable, and that is always right.